I had hoped that “road rage” was only an ugly phase the United States went through some years ago, and that we’d quickly move past something so immature and dangerous.
I was wrong.
Road rage remains a problem, with news stories still recounting collisions, beatings and outright murder from road violence. Psychologist Leon James even has a website dedicated to road rage stories through the years.
Recently, a 22-year old University of North Florida student in Jacksonville (FL) was beaten into a coma after the driver of the car he was riding in honked his horn and flashed his lights at a truck which had cut them off. The student may or may not live. The men doing the beating have not been caught.
James states that a typical road rage incident happens when at least one driver chooses to act out in anger. Usually, the driver is already feeling stress when something triggers an aggressive reaction. Many road rage drivers reported being under duress in other areas of their lives, like work or relationships, all of which contribute to a driver’s stress level, making them more vulnerable to engaging in irrational behavior.
Some police say road rage instigators frequently adopt this motto: “Anyone going faster than me is a maniac; anyone going slower than me is an idiot.”
Regardless of who is at fault, here are some common sense tips to prevent road rage:
- Avoid confrontation. Never stop to talk it out. You don’t know if somebody will be rational or violent.
- Work on venting. Vent your frustrations, but not in front of the other driver or in ways that lead to confrontation.
- Allow sufficient time for your trip to avoid pressure to speed.
- Know your emotions and how to calm yourself down.
- Give other drivers the benefit of the doubt. Don’t assume they have hostile intent.
- Be careful when you are stressed or fatigued.
Edmunds also offers several common sense tips to prevent road rage.
My advice: take a deep breath and keep on driving. You have almost nothing to gain and a lot to lose by confronting an upset stranger on the road.
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